

We almost had a Christmas "Awakening" of sorts last night when my son, who couldn't sleep, came to find me in my bedroom where I was sorting "Santa" gifts to wrap. Luckily, Hubby intercepted the little man before he saw anything that would make him ask questions... or so I hope. He didn't seem disturbed in his belief. It is becoming harder and harder to hide things from those knowing eyes and questioning minds. There is a reason that by 8 or 9, children get wise to our illusions. I am inclined to see it as a sort of rite of passage now that I have been through it and am watching my kids go through it. I mean, everyone remembers how they found out about Santa, don't they?

Interesting how non-religious traditions can be more like rites of passage than religious ones. I for one, can't remember what was so significant about first communion that it required the hoopla of such an extravagant ceremony. Seems to me they could have offered those little white wafers to the kids before we purchased a white dress and ruffles socks. But perhaps they were afraid that without the prohibition and ceremony, kids wouldn't have given two shits about those dry little wafers. Funny how we trick kids into caring about something by making it an elite rite and then wonder why 21 year olds drink themselves stupid. We are a messy people.
Merry Winter Solstice to my Sisters and Brothers of this Earth. May wisdom deliver our children, from Santa(and getting), to Generosity(and giving).
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